I’m in Scotland, of all places, having a holiday, enjoying the scenery and visiting some of the best whisky distilleries in the world such as The Glenlivet, Glenfiddich and its lovely sister The Balvenie, Glenfarclas, The GlenAllachie, Cardhu, Dalwhinnie…as you can see, I’m a Speyside lover!

But II’ve also been spending plenty of time preparing for my upcoming US spring tour, starting next week in Arlington, where I always stay in Crystal City close to The Pentagon….those military boys do like a bit of corporal punishment!

Then I’m heading by train to Richmond for a few days, renting a car there and driving in a big circle to Durham, Asheville, Atlanta, Charleston, and Raleigh, after which I return my rental car in Richmond and take the train back to DC for a few more days in Arlington, before heading home to Lisbon. Packing for this trip is not easy, my regular clients enjoy a wide range of fun fetishes that need to be planned for.

I don’t have a favorite fetish – although I get asked this quite often. No, my pleasure comes from making fantasies come true, not from any particular activity, as long as it’s safe and consensual, I’ll probably be up for it! Although I do love using my whips, and have been told I have a heavy hand, haha! I also love a good foot fetish, my lovely toes and soles very much enjoy being worshipped. MILF role play is also fun, I love getting into character and seducing a helpless young (or young-playing) lad as a naughty aunt or teacher. Perhaps there’s a famous actress in one of my past lives!

I won’t give specifics about who I’m seeing of course, to protect their privacy, but I’ll be packing a wide variety of whips and paddles, two strap-ons with different sized dildo attachments, a spreader bar which is very useful in hotel rooms for all sorts of bondage and restraint positions, blindfolds, gags, nipple clamps, and a LOT of plastic gloves for anal play ranging from medical prostate massage/inspection from Nurse Jasmin up to full fisting for some lucky men! I’ll have an anal spreader for one, an IV stand for a couple of enema play lovers to hold the water bag, again as Nurse Jasmin, a wig for role play for another, plus outfits in latex, leather, my lab coat for medical play, and some lingerie for those who like a softer touch. I do not travel light!

Ever wondered why there are no photos of my fun crazy BDSM and fetish sessions? True, some dominatrixes often post photos of their subs mid-session. I will never, ever do that, however. The rare times I have posted something like that on my X account, it was at a client’s specific request from their exhibitionist fetish, which I will accommodate of course when asked. Otherwise, I never, ever take time out of a session to take photos or videos.

My clients are treasured accomplices in a carefully created scenario designed to develop a deep connection of trust in our respective roles. I think it’s rude to reduce paying clients to mere props for my social media marketing and self-promotion. It’s also unprofessional to interrupt the integrity of the scene as I am bringing them slowly to the ecstasy of the final moments of our session. Taking either of us out of the moment to take photos and videos seems preposterous to me. My focus needs to stay 100% of providing the best possible experience I can, regardless of the specific kink or fetish in which we are engaged. So therefore, I rarely have content to share from my sessions.

I’ll share more about my practices, preferences, and even my agenda in coming blog posts. I’ve been meaning to do this for a while but it took a bit of time to figure out the mechanics of how to do this using WordPress. Doing it now was a good way to spend time on rainy days. But now, the sunshine is back today, and I’m heading out for a walk in the gorgeous Scottish Highlands. Kisses!